I'm so sorry for you trumpet. I just wanted to say to you: thank you. For being honest about the porn and for trying to deal with it. For talking about it openly and vulnerably. I know it must be a huge burden, but it really is helpful - for other men and for wives who have husbands who are in the midst of this addiction. I wish my husband would openly talk about or even just face what has hold over his soul.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?