Ksanti

[Mona52]

mut,

I am so sorry she is hanging on to all of this resentment and anger. I am so embarrassed to say that I was your wife less than 6 months ago. I was so full of resentment and anger at my lovely jerkface that everything he did annoyed me.If he did something good I would get mad (too little too late) if he did something bad I think I was less mad because it is what I had come to expect.

If he would have changed his ways i am very sure I would not have seen it. My anger was a shield and the only thing that would crack the shield would have been a long, very long time of seeing consistent change in behavior. Seeing, as in his actions. There would have been no words he could have said to break the shield.

You were sarcastic, well welcome to the human being club I am of the opinion they need sarcasm every once in a while so I applaud you.

It sounds like you are showing consistent changes in behavior. That means you are doing every possible thing you can do. Now relax. FORGET HER MOODS. Do something to get your mind off how she feels! Her feelings dont matter yet. Maybe they will in the future, but not now.

You are a rock. You can do this.