Merry Christmas E, so sorry you have a tummy ache and had to fake your situation. Why isn't everything on the table? That to me seems to be a bit like cake eating too.
If you're not being treated like a W, why should he get to pretend your his W?
This upsets me greatly, you deserve better than this.
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
Thanks PP. He told me he was going to tell them today, but no dice.
The only complaint he has ever made about our marriage is that he felt like he couldn't make his own decisions, but always had to consider what I needed or our son needed. So I refuse to tell them and have him say I took that decision away from him. It does make it really hard on me though.
There are nights that I'm looking forward to the 9th.
E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
My husband told me on a Tuesdsy night that he was leaving me. That weekend his dad came to visit. It was so hard pretending everything was alright. Shortly before he walked in the door I had sat on the sofa, holding my sleeping baby while silently sobbing. I'm so sorry you had to spend your Christmas putting on a show for the ils.
Hey Elly, i am glad that you are back posting. I hope your job is going well, i am still excited for you on that front.
I am truly sorry to hear that your husband still plans to move out. I realize the strain on you is immense and pray for you and your family. I can recall the crushing despair i felt time after time when i just thought things would be over and thst she was planning on leaving...and that was just from rational/irrational thoughts.
So i have tried to keep up with your postings. One thing that i am not seeing are your activities. I understand it is hard to plan for things day-on-day out, but what have you been up to? What have you been planning to do for you and the little one? How is your exercising & dieting going?
I am not picking on you i just want to put a bug in your ear again how important getting out can be.
Hi Zephyr! No time, no see. My job is going well most of the time. A lot of pressure, but a good kind if you know what I mean.
My exercising is going okay. I'm a lot more active because of work and have gone down two pant sizes. I still have a bunch more to lose. Recently I've been not losing weight, but definitely firming up. Stuff I can actually see in the mirror. I had to give up my membership to the gym as I truly have no time to drive the 45 mins there and then back again in my schedule. So, I'm doing weights and exercises at home twice a day.
My s and I are having play dates when we can, some museum hopping and just hanging out with each other. He still doesn't know what going to happen on the 9th.
I am still teaching agility and trying to get out sometimes for myself on Sundays. It's hard recently as I'm finding myself not wanting to go without my S as I'm about to go into share mode with him. But it's healthier for us both if I do go out sometimes.
Please, Please, pick on me I have a tendency to just go into survival mode instead DB mode.
I'm feeling very lonely lately. He told his mom last night apparently, and it went okay. She asked if he had a place to live and left it at that, if he's telling me the truth. So now I'm wondering if I lost his family too.
It would be very easy to sit on the couch and watch tv all the time.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
It would be very easy to sit on the couch and watch tv all the time.
What other plans do you have E? I know you're busy with work and your S, but what about you? What would make January of 2016 amazing for you despite the heart ache that's waiting?
What would you learn if you could learn anything?
Sending you a big hug,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
I have a tendency to just go into survival mode instead DB mode.