Originally Posted By: rd500
Hi PP. just my two cents worth here. Great convo and I don't want to judge but the " fear of you thing " is hard to hear but it's how she believes she felt.

reading your posts you certainly don't come across that way but maybe with the alcohol a slightly darker side emerged ???? Either way this is how she feels and it's something you can look at in yourself while remembering it's her view and not necessarily the absolute truth

Going forward all you can control is you and et the universe take care of the rest

PP , you have become a man only a fool would leave , your path is clear and stick to it It's working Relax back from expectations BUT it's going the right way. Your W is gaining respect for you and as Sandi says , that's where it starts

Have a great 2016 brother. Positive thoughts heading your way Rd xx


Thank you as always Rd, you have a great way of framing things. I was actually a happy drinker (in my W's terms), I think she interpreted my frustrations from work and life as a deep seeded anger. Perhaps she was right, I know I was upset often at feeling like my own situation would never change.

I appreciate you saying that she's gaining respect for me, I hope so. I'm going to follow everyone's advice and just keep moving forward.

Cheers my friend.

PP


M 39 W 36
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BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day
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