LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

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Hi Sandi,
Messed around = no actually sex but "took care of" each other physically.

the temp checking is confusing because she D'd me. She has made it very clear she doesn't want me. I think she just doesn't want anyone else to have me either. She's trying to cake eat.

Maybe she thinks you are giving off signals that you would go right along with the whole re-do, where she gets to play dating, engagement, wedding, etc...........without her doing any work. In other words, scratch this M off and get a re-do, and expect not to have the same problems again. smirk

I think you're right on target here. I'm not sure what to do. Do I tell her what I'd need to see in her in order to consider reconciliation or do I just keep moving along and let her figure it out? Do I wait for her to bring up R talk or do I bring it up? not sure the correct strategy at this time. I'm probably looking at another month before she moves out.