I am so sorry to come here and read about your father. It's a miracle that he's not in pain at this time. Spend as much time as you can w/him. I would also recommend that your children carve out some time and spend w/him. Now is a good time to make some home movies w/him that you can look back on in the years to come.
I will continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
