Thanks inpain. It's difficult not to slip in to 'friends' territory. I will take your advice on board and have a re-think. It might never happen, but again, today, her tact has changed in eight hours.
I went to pick D up to go and see Star Wars/have food etc. and the other 'residents' of her block have been leaving their rubbish in the communal staircase and it stinks. W was grumpy when I went round. Fast forward to when she comes to drop off my S for the night and she is the pinnacle of good humour and niceness. Asking questions again about the flat and the area we now live in.
Onwards.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015