Don't be the one to shoot yourself in the foot. I tried something very similar to what you did, and my wife got cold and distant. Do you think forcing her to produce that info right now will put you closer to reconciling?
Just enjoy the dinner. No R talk. Pretend you're on a date with someone new. Your letter put expectations galore on your dinner tonight.
Just wanted you to think before you made a possible mistake. My wife and I had a 'date night' that completely blew up because of my expectations. Live and learn in my case.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
