Christmas was great! The kids had a blast. The boys Dad came over again. We all hung out and had a really nice day. That night WXW said there were a bunch of movies she would like to see, asked if I wanted to go to the movies and then started naming all the movies she wanted to see. I didn't respond and ducked into the shower. Later that night we messed around again.
By "messed around", do you mean the two of you had sex, or just hung out around the house?
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Her temp checking is very confusing
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I'm not 100% against it but she will need to get help before I'll even consider it.
I don't know if she thinks we'll just start over and her A's and behavior will never be addressed.
Maybe she thinks you are giving off signals that you would go right along with the whole re-do, where she gets to play dating, engagement, wedding, etc...........without her doing any work. In other words, scratch this M off and get a re-do, and expect not to have the same problems again.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
