WW is onboard with trying to save the M

[JGuy]

Yes, I agree with you both Azzork and PP about the inappropriateness of the 20 minute conversation. I pointed this out to my W.

Today is our 8 year wedding anniversary, by the way! We are going to dinner together tonight while my parents stay home with our son. I wrote her a letter and just gave it to her. In it, I invited her to do the following:

1. Show me that she is committed to zero contact with the OM. Show me her plan for what she will say next time if again they accidentally encounter each other.

2. Show me that I can trust her commitment to NC by sharing her passwords with me. I made a list of blank spaces on the back of the letter for Gmail, FB, iPhone, etc.