Thanks for all the support and ideas. Today we are travelling back and I feel like venting a bit. Had a series of texts from W asking when we are arriving, what have we been doing and did S enjoy his film. Kept the responses brief and about the flights. She's stopped now but it just irritated me that she was texting in the way she used to when S and I would come back to be with her. I know not to give it another thought but I just wonder when she'll realise that for now I'm not that interested in talking to her. How long does it take somone to notice that I only replied to one text on Xmas day with a photo and haven't asked once for her plans during the whole festive period! Can't wait to start the New Year, sort out finances and keep our contact to the minimal. Still no idea why she hugged and cried the other day. I assume a mixture of guilt, sadness and regret. Who knows? I certainly can't change her mind but I can resist her occasional attempts to reclaim me as her best friend. Venting over!
