So, I was able to offer some help to one of my colleagues at my part-time job.

But the conversation turned a very unexpected route, and in the end, he may be the one helping *me* out: I may have the chance of working abroad for a month or so at some point in the next year.

After our quick chat I got in touch with someone I know (in my H's industry) about this. I've worked for her in the past, she has a high opinion of my work but has always thought I should push myself more. She also has the connections to help me out.

And (get this...) she thinks it's a great idea!

I think I'm going to speak to her some time after the new year about it.

My part time job is zero hours, so I could easily go away for a month and then come back to it.

I feel pretty darn excited about this. I never got the chance to travel when I was in my 20s. I went from an undergraduate degree, straight into a six year postgrad (during which I worked the whole time), then straight into getting married and looking after my H.

It's going on my homework storyboard that my counsellor set me smile


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017