H seduced by old crush the night before our wedding.
Yuk. that is awful. It sounds like you are definately lucky to be rid of him. Do you still see him? Is he happily married?
If you could please give me some indication as to what my 'road map' should look like, I:d be very happy to hear it.
It's my wedding anniversary on the 31st Dec (in 2 days) and I am wondering what I should do/say to him if he mentions it in any way (ie. via card/email). I was wondering if a well aimed truth dart would be appropriate?, like; why are you celebrating a wedding anniversary with one person, yet having an affair and dating others at the same time? I don't want to sound bitter, but I would like to mention the discrepancy.
thanks for listening! joss
Married Dec. 1997 EA discovered April 2011 H lived at home until August 10th 2015 Separated August 10th 2015 kids aged 8. 14 and 15 I think we're done.