Ghost taking baby steps

[ATPeace]

Ok so to summarise and to set myself a goal or towel for the next week or two

Right now things are fairly stable both in the same house getting along her doing her worn thing and me starting to do a few things for me.

Sandi

On a previous post you talked about respect

You Said respect does not require love and that a woman first has to respect her h as a Man before she can desire him as her husband

And you said that respect does not require love

So I understand that I need to be a great father to my children and I have already stepped up in this department considerably and I am doing so much more with my children than I used to do ...I realise this makes me a better parent .I have to also pull my weight with regard to the house chores not because this was something that my wife complained about during our marriage but because it is the right thing to do in an equal relationship amd I will continue to work on these two areas to become a better father

So How do I gain her respect back ?
If everything starts with this

I do see that my W has gone has left our M I just want to start rebuilding things and I am trying to do this by trying to show her my love as her husband I remember reading somewhere that I would have to do things differently I cannot remember exactly what or how

I still think that it is better to be still in the same house ...I see being in separate houses I would not see her hardly at all so i see this as us getting further apart