BTW, she "accidentally" broke NC yesterday but came to me honestly about it right away. She said she was in a parking lot at the local grocery store when the OM saw her and came over to say hello. She said that she kept the 20 minute conversation dry and limited to how are you doing, etc. but nothing romantic. She said it felt very different, like it was over with him.
I thanked her for her honesty, which is an improvement. However, 20 minutes is long and indicates that she isn't really committed to NC completely. I'm also not sure if she's telling the 100% truth about her feelings during the encounter or is just watering it down.
Like this.....
Look at what she says: "there was a dry conversation. She's not interested in OM anymore anyway."
Look at what she does: has a 20 minute conversation with OM in a grocery store parking lot.
How many times have you encountered an acquaintance in a grocery store parking lot? And now she's accidentally meeting a very particular person there?!
