Originally Posted By: trumpet
Like Sandi says, a wayward wife is just NUTS, and she has to burn through the crazy before any traction can happen in the relationship.


Thanks for this reminder, trumpet. I suppose it answers what I just wrote in my previous post. I have to outlast her crazy wayward mindset. I remember Sandi saying that I should wait at least a month after her NC with the OM. Does that sound about right? Gosh... I am just so impatient and I just can't resist wanting to make decisions now.


Me: 39
W: 36
M: 8 yrs T: 10 yrs
S: 7
W started coming out with the truth: 9/26/15
W finished coming out with the truth: 11/12/15
W started sleeping in guest BR: 11/13/2015