I wish there was something I could say to my W that would make her realize that I am so sorry and give her the belief once again that I could be the man she hoped I could have been
and this continues to be the problem. All you think about it what you can say or do to make her come back.
Originally Posted By: ATPeace
but she will not give me another chance
Your changes will never be real because they are only meant to get her back. Fear drives you changing to get something and the second your comfortable again and get it the changes will disappear. Just like 3 years ago.
If you want your W to be gone forever then keep wanting her to give you a second chance without doing any work on you.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be