Mel, I have gone to the library many times to get out, also church and thrift shops. My life is so exciting! I usually tell H "I am going out, you've got the kids" and usually I will say if I will be back in time to put the kids to bed or I ask if he can do it.
I slowed down on going out though because of exhaustion from not sleeping. How are you doing with your sleep? (I changed names a couple of times, we had discussed this when I had a different name.)
