I'm glad you got through the holidays okay.

Confidence is important, and so is respect for the court, so congratulations on the new suit! Is your L taking you through what will happen in court beforehand? Be prepared that W may try to play the victim in court and make false accusations against you. Your lack of aggressive action and financial support should make that hard for her, but prepare for the unexpected and focus on staying emotionally calm. It is fine to show sadness, but no anger.

I'm sure I'm not the only one here who will be thinking about you on the 6th...


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17