And I do have plans for my birthday. He'll be back from his little getaway, so he can babysit D (Yes, I always thank him for babysitting his own D as my own little subtle F you to him. Childish, I know.) I'm going to have dinner and drinks with a couple of friends.
Gmum, your birthday plans sound good. Although it may be a subtle f u to your H for taking care of your D, he may just take it as words of affirmation?
I hear you about the soulmate part. Hope I will find mine too. Even if not a soulmate, at least someone who's willing to chug along in life with me.
Last edited by Grlonfr; 12/28/1511:15 PM.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
He certainly doesn't realize it's supposed to be an insult. A while ago, when we were seeing the therapist together (after DB, so not MC), he used the term himself. I had a hard time not laughing.
I feel like a lot of us ladies on this board could have such a fun time going out. Too bad we're spread all over the world.
Imagine a night out with friends who UNDERSTAND what you're going through. That sounds a little bit like heaven at the moment.
Yes, a night out where we can ALL forget our troubles for just a little while and not have to obsess about them!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
I kinda hope to have an innocent little flirt tomorrow when I go out.
i have to start with the disclaimer, although having it come out of my mouth is hilarious! Don't flirt too much, an other man will make things complicated.
There, I said it, HAHAHAHAHA
Happy Bday!!!
You are right, I bet if a few of us ladies got together it would be a night to remember. You men are invited, but with how lonely people are on this board, it is better if the guys and gals dont mix, lol. I am already half in love with a few of you. (yeah, you know who you are).
Gmum, I am so sorry you are feeling so low. I promise better feelings are coming right after the holidays. Just surround yourself with some kind of fun activities. It will pull you through.
I th8ink you should remember the disclaimer at the beginning and flirt away, but keep it innocent Flirting raises your PMA so much, and lasts for days, but remember it is not a substitute for real happiness.
I wish you could hang out with me for new years. Every man in the room would be in trouble. HA!
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Flirting raises your PMA so much, and lasts for days, but remember it is not a substitute for real happiness.