Hi Mleigh - jumping in to lend support. I wish I were close enough to run over there with a nice bottle of wine for a chat.
As we are told, this time of year is really tough. It is so hard when all goes well and yet they just slink back to their dumpy worlds.
I just want you to know I am sending you hugs and positive thoughts.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced