Gmum, your birthday plans sound good. Although it may be a subtle f u to your H for taking care of your D, he may just take it as words of affirmation?

I hear you about the soulmate part. Hope I will find mine too. Even if not a soulmate, at least someone who's willing to chug along in life with me.

Last edited by Grlonfr; 12/28/15 11:15 PM.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.