Moving Ahead - In the UK - Huddy (pt16)

[Huddy]

Hi Rd

Yes, I am in the driving seat. I'm choosing where I go, what I do, what I wear etc. and that does feel good. You remember the mess I was in, in the summer, and thanks to you and NDY (amongst others) I re-doubled efforts and have moved forward. I can imagine my W, in her temporary accommodation, didn't imagine it like this, wishing I was a crumbling wreck begging for her to to return. Well that time passed a long time ago.

Hi sandi2

I will have to watch the manipulation thing. Yesterday she was telling me how she was going to have to put a blind up in her temporary bathroom, as the neighbours can see right in. She's borrowed my drill and said 'it's so hard to do'. So, I could have said 'I'll do it', but I didn't. If she'd have asked, then I might have done it, but it was all supposition.

I'm taking the kids on a big ferris wheel soon. I didn't know if it would be rude not to invite W? By the way, neither of us bought gifts for each other on Christmas Day. That felt a bit weird.