Thanks Job and AJ. I have to wonder if it is healthy though. I mean, to give an example of how I've changed:

I used to be a HUGE fan of the tv show "Deadliest Catch" about Alaskan crab fishermen. When I got the bomb, I had no desire to watch it. I've tried to watch it since but can't because of the poor crabs. Pathetic? I don't know. I've changed in a very big way. I'm not complaining because I like the changes, but I guess I'm just surprised that I've changed in this way.

Funny stuff:

XW texted our sons yesterday and wished them Merry Christmas...on the 27th! She kind of gave them attitude because only S23 texted her on Christmas Day and wished her a Merry Christmas. But....like S29 said: "It goes both ways."

She seems different though. Quiet and....not as angry with me, but angry as hell at S29. She hasn't talked to him since before Thanksgiving when they had the disagreement about OM. His fiancée feels uncomfortable around him and of course, XW hit the roof.

I could be wrong, but I think she may be entering a new phase...

My New Year's resolutions in no particular order:

1. Be smoke free.
2. Join a gym.
3. Move to a place closer to work.
4. Get dental work done.
5. See an Orca or Humpback in the wild.
6. Eat healthier.
7. Visit the beach.
8. Put money away every paycheck.
9. Pay off credit cards.
10. Start an exploratory committee for my 2020 presidential run!

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13