Ghost taking baby steps

[Calibri]

Ghost,

This is going to sound really harsh. And it's not meant to be. However.....

There are worse things in life that can happen than getting divorced.

It may not seem like it. But its the truth.

I agree with what RD says. Accept that your marriage is over. BECAUSE IT IS.

Worse case scenario? You're divorced and you start over.

Best case? You become a better person and maybe, or maybe not you have a new R with your W or a new partner.

You can either pull yourself together, and move forward with your life. Or you can continue to stick your fingers in your ears and go "LALALALALALA I can't hear you," and ignore everything and everyone.

Would you be acting this way is your W (god forbid) had passed away? Would you just stop functioning and go, "my W is gone, and I don't want her to be gone, so I'm just going to curl up into a ball and not deal with anything?"

Or would you have a good cry, mourn, but pull yourself off the floor and continue on with your life.....not only for you, but your children as well?

The choice is yours.