I would be interested to hear from a man point's of view. H is living with OW, but on the anniversary of her death H spent the evening with his best friend instead of OW. I know men and women think differently, but my point is that because of the importance of this anniversary, shouldn't he be spending it with the person he loves and supports him (is OW) than his best friend?.
Before he was gone, I remember him telling me that he talked a lot about his mum to OW, so logically he should be with her on such an important time.