Thanks guys. When I asked him what his feelings for her were he just said very passively, "I mean, I care for her." I said, "Do you love your wife and family?" He says yes. He didn't specifically say he would break it off, but he said he would call his father and confide to him about it. Hopefully his dad sets him straight. I can say, if he doesn't do the right thing, I will tell his wife. I told him not to yet, because it would destroy his wife, and she would take everything from him in a divorce if she proceeds to do it. I told him I'm giving him a chance to handle this like a "man of god" should. And get with his Deacon at his Parish before I do.
She did seem to be in a bit of crisis mode yesterday. We had a short interaction via text today.
Her: Hey Nate, how is Cora? Me: She's doing just fine today. She ate, she's watching her youtube mothergoose channel.
Her: Of course lol, is she still snotty today? Me: Not as much today. Just a little, but I've already given her tylenol and dimetapp.
Her: How do her eyes look? Me: They're fine. She's actually well rested.
Her: Can I tell u something without you getting defensive? Me: Yes
Her: It truly makes me happy that she is sleeping well. I feel like you are rubbing it in how rested she is and how well she is sleeping because you know she was having some trouble her for awhile. But she's sleeping better now that she had the playpen. Me: I'm sorry, that's not my intent.
Her: Ok, I just wanted to tell you that's how I felt so that I wasn't resentful. Me: I appreciate you being honest with me. I promise I'm not trying to rub something in. I felt maybe it would ease any worries you may have.
Her: Ok thank you. I am happy. I miss her like crazy. Me: I understand that feeling.
Not much to report after that. Just some chit chat about the snowpocalypse we had.
Been a little sad today, as we're snowed in, and not a lot to do.
Last edited by NateG79; 12/28/1507:31 PM.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15