Don't fret about the future just now Gmum, there's still LOTS of time in both your sitch and your life.
If you DB properly, no matter what happens in your sitch, you're going to make yourself into a confident, powerful woman. That is sexy as hell. Right now isn't the time to worry about potential future suitors. There are men on this very board who are probably handsome devils who are concerned about their own physical insecurities and are hoping to meet a woman that has the DB understanding.
You simply never know what life is going to bring you, so worrying about it at this point in your sitch is just a wast of energy.
Happy Birthday btw.
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M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17