My WW said the same thing almost word for word. She was actually very nice in the beginning. She wanted there to be a divorce and us be best friends after. She wanted unlimited access to the children for both of us. She said she would not let either of us fall into financial ruin. She would work extra if she had to. She also was having an EA at the time.
After I found out about the EA she turned into a demon and has been the meanest person I have ever met. Essentially I stopped giving into her every demand. I stood up for myself and she became very aggressive and has been that way for the past six months. I will say that I also violated almost all the DB principles in the beginning. I begged, pleaded, cried, bla bla bla...
Now she is keeping me away from my kids. She is wanting alimony. The affair turned PA. The list goes on.
I do not want to scare you, but be careful buddy.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."