For a few years after my divorce I kept ending up with men who were unavailable for one reason or another (all lovely men, don't get me wrong, just not able to be full partners). It took me a while to realize that I was choosing them because it was ME that wasn't ready for a real relationship yet.
kml, thanks for this. I'm starting to move away from New Guy and this was really helpful. I'm NOT ready for a real relationship yet -- I don't want the responsibility of another person -- but I am interested in exploring a little bit of closeness. Is there a happy medium where that can happen?
Good to see you hear Mozza and I'm looking forward to hearing more from you.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
