I resolve to stick to the advice and DB principles from here on out, I tried my way and it is not the way. She knows how I feel and is quite frankly tired of hearing about it. Her problems are her problems, not mine or anyone else's. She will be getting a new level of time and space as far as I am concerned. That is what she wants and that is what I will give her.
2ltl2lt,
Amazing - same thing here. I'm too inpatient, W is tired of talking about it, wants 'space', but no work on R. Still loves the OM in her head, and we've had good days, good outings with the kids, but when I want things to move forward, or put any pressure on the M to move forward, she resists. My struggle is being a husband and father, and constantly being around my W, but showing JUST enough care, concern, and respect that shows I'm present, but being able to pull back and do things for me.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
