Time to make changes

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Joss

It definitely sounds like further investigation is needed
Are you sure he is in MLC
maybe he would consider counseling..

I think it may be a good idea to practice some active listening and see where his head is at
be the person you want to be and practice that with him
listen and validate ..put your hurt aside for a little bit at least with him
you can talk all you want to therapist about it
be careful the friends you share with and many people unknowingly will influence you to not try

It may take some time but if he is not in MLC and he never wanted the Divorce your chances are probably better if he will consider counseling
I do not know your full situation but it sounds like he had an affair and you asked him to leave
the affair is over? and he is online dating
the emails are confusing,,sounds like he has regret
he knows you are serious to throw him out

I would investigate further but please keep expectations low
He may have an issue with being Faithful and an addiction so even if its not MLC
he still has to be willing to let the other dates go