The discussions about co-dependency pretty much went over my head in the early days of DB and I never read the book. But I just had a dating experience where I got invested way too much too soon and I wanted to fix the other person. It didn't go over well. I realize that this is one of my patterns and I've ordered the book after all. It also fits with my resolution, at BD, to read one book per year on relationships.
Yup some of us took way longer to figure that out so you are really ahead of the curve IMHO.
I think we need to fix ourselves before we can be ready to figure out how to move forward.
Remember - Love is a Choice.
I think that has helped me the most in a new relationship.
