Sotto thanks for stopping by. Relax, I'm not pursuing! The presents were only sent to her for my convenience as she has been working these days and that way I could guarantee that they were collected. My phone has been off 90% of the time. I was only wondering about the nicest way to behave for W and S, but I'm not going to create Family events as S isn't that interested. I asked him did he want to get his mother a card and he said no. I am focusing on me and S at the moment. We have barely spoken about her the whole time here. I'm looking forward to a race on New Years Eve, S will run too but with his friends. 2016 will take care of itself once I've finalised finances with W. I've got a cookery course in February to look forward to. I haven't got anything else planned but I'll reach out to people and say Yes whenever possible, try to get myself out of my comfort zone.