jjal - you could throw your phone...or you could see that she just reached out to you. How long has it been since she was interested in anything about you?
You've been away for awhile, but remember DB principles. You don't want to bar and permanently shut the door to her getting back home, do you?
The fact that she's cutting out her parents screams MLC to me. If it's a crisis, it will end at some point. What do you want at the end? Are you happy with her out of your life?
If you're wanting to leave even a glimmer of hope for R, don't throw your phone. Meet with her. Check on her and see how she's doing. No R talk - just let her know you've not crossed her out of your life permanently.
If you're leaving hope somewhere for her to come back into your life, keep posting and let us help you with this. You were there for me when I first arrived here, in a panic (Judy) - I would love to be able to help you out in return.
I've grown a lot since then. I've learned a lot, and see endless possibilities. My own M is dead, gone. But should H ever wake up one day, I want him to be able to find his way home. I still care about the man, at the end of the day. I won't go back to what we had - but I'd be more than willing to help us build something newer, better, and stronger.
