Originally Posted By: focus22
Kinda surprised by this, but I got a text from my H on Christmas eve.

He said he wasn't trying to put the onus on me to start a conversation, but wanted to know how I was doing. He was asking what I was doing for Christmas, and told me he was going to his parent's house for some turkey and board games. He signed off with 'Have a good day x'.

It seemed quite friendly in tone...totally different from his last text (exactly one month before).

I haven't replied. I'm thinking of waiting until a bit after the new year. I don't know what to say though. Keep it short is my instinct.



Does anyone have any ideas as to how I could answer this?

Should I go with just 'I'm doing great, thanks'? And leave it at that?

I feel so lost and confused.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017