Actually your husband does sound a lot like the way I was. My biggest problem was admiting that I had a problem and then finding help. I tried to ignore the troubles in my marriage and hope that they would go away. Meanwhile in the process of making my wife miserable, I was also making myself miserable and it was starting to affect my work enviroment. I finally had to face the fact that I was the one with the probelm, and not her. She is actually a wonderful woman and a great wife and mother. I on the other hand was just a worthless husband. I wanted to show her affection and show her that I loved her, but I didn't think it was "manly", I realize now that I wasn't being "manly" at all, in fact I wasn't even a man. And thats where I am now, I am learning to be a real man. I had lost sight of the fact that God made woman for man to be a help mate, a complementor and a life saver, and I was treating my wife like a posession. God knows my heart and he knows that I am his and I will honor him, and I truly trust in him to open my wifes heart again for me if it is his will.
"Anyone who is among the living, has hope." (Eccl 9:4)
