What if you're not sure where your spouse stands as far as whether they want out or not. What if they say they want out but their actions say otherwise. I keep thinking of the statement which says to believe nothing of what you hear and only half of what you see. Should I not believe my wife when she says that she's done? My trouble is that I'm not sure how entrenched I should get into my divorce busting activities if I'm not sure that she really wants out or not. Do I try to get a convincing response to whether she's leaving or not? What do you do when you're not sure of the current situation? Thanks!