Now I'm back to wishing I'd been a better wife, so that he never had to get to this point. I don't blame myself for all of it, no, please don't think that. But I do take full ownership of my share of the problems. Hindsight is crystal clear and unforgiving. But it also provides me a pretty good map of what I need to work on.

Anc, nothing you could have done would have made any difference.

You can let go of this, in my opinion, this is outside of your control completely. You are responsible for you only. This is the differentiation of self from others, if you like you can Google it.


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Last edited by Vanilla; 12/28/15 06:45 AM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW