The point of GAL isn't to "prove" anything to your S. It's to prove it to yourself. It's to keep you from doing all of the things that undermine you. If you sit home by yourself in a quiet, dark house, you start doing and feeling all of the things you know you shouldn't.
In my opinion, there are several benefits to GAL. None of which have anything to do with your spouse. It truly is for you.
