Mozza's own success story

[Mozza]

I'm moving here! I don't feel comfortable among the newcomers. I remember how I didn't like reading about people who were over a year into their S with little or no hope of R. I wanted hope and didn't care for those who had lost it. That's how I started collecting success stories, by the way. I still think DB is the best course of action for those who want to R. It jives with all that I read about relationships and attraction.

The discussions about co-dependency pretty much went over my head in the early days of DB and I never read the book. But I just had a dating experience where I got invested way too much too soon and I wanted to fix the other person. It didn't go over well. I realize that this is one of my patterns and I've ordered the book after all. It also fits with my resolution, at BD, to read one book per year on relationships. One of my biggest regrets is never to have tried to "learn" about being in a relationship before my WW left.

So, if you're looking for me. I'll be here!