BTW, I can list six couples I know who survived either affairs or serious problems, even divorce and breakups. Sometimes they completely split and it took a couple of years and intervening rebound relationships. In one case the boxes were packed and the locks changed and the moving van was on its way and they reconciled before the truck arrived.
Gotta keep hope. And at any rate, just gotta hope that whatever happens, we'll be happy again one day. Today it's hard for me to believe it, so I'm saying it to you and maybe we'll both believe!!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat