I have been showing her, one of the things I've always done is clean up the kitchen after supper, but I have also started washing/drying/folding and putting away the laundry, I have cleaned all 3 bathrooms till they are spic and span, I make our bed daily (didn't always do this) I have been trying to keep our yard in good shape. All of this stuff, she says is just pissing her off. But I don't know what else to do. She says she has noticed a change in me, but she doesn't know who I am and I told her, "I am becoming the man you should have married, not the man you married" and I WILL show her. I already feel a tremendous amout of relief and peace just from talking about my pent up anger w/ a therapist and from accepting Jesus Christ as my Lord and saviour and through him, thanking God. First and fore most, I am doing this for me but I would like her to be the woman to reap the rewards.
"Anyone who is among the living, has hope." (Eccl 9:4)