I do have a coach, she is great but I space our conversations out because it's expensive and very little movement in our situation. She recommended being a friend first, but agreed to let him first initiate. Which he still as not! So maybe he no longer wants to?
If he still does I would actually like to have him talk to her as opposed to a MC since I no longer trust the types of MCs that we can afford. We had a bad experience with last one.
I'm just taking things one day at a time, and will reread the DR book and some others, but for now it just gets me emotional and husband and I are only really texting occasionally concerning the kids. I almost always let him text first.
I am thinking of initiating some friendly texts regarding kids and maybe some other non relationshipy stuff as well.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
