I get it. I don't have much positive happening with my partner right now, either. I still have hope, and sometimes I just think it's a sick trap and I'd be better off without hope.

I'm so thankful for these posts. After our discussion coming up Tuesday evening(ugghhh) I'll be on here nonstop looking for support, if I'm not melting in a puddle of tears. Sorry for the self-pity. I've just never in my life felt so bad.

There are a lot of good people on here. It's so sad that so many of us are so alone, but it's good we have each other.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat