Well, technically he's not really cheating. I mean, we aren't together anymore. She dumped her husband as well, so they are free to do whatever. But I don't see much of a future unless he moves to her state. She has two school aged kids and I'm sure her ex wouldn't let her take them out of the state. He'll probably end up moving to her state, my therapist said about my H.
Him and I had a codependent relationship. He is aware of that now, says when he reads about it he can check all the boxes for us. So now he'll know what NOT to do in his new relationship.
I know I should get her/them outta of my mind, but I can't. I'm so down in the dumps. He's so relieved. He wants to see the mediator first thing next year.
