Hi Huddy. I'll look forward to Sandis answer. My W stayed x as eve and Xmas day until 6pm. I got hugs and kisses and load of talk of the good old days.

My take is they do miss us but at the moment they have decided they are better off without us.

Seems strange but is it stranger than her living in a council halfway house ???

Keep on as you are and let W live her life. What will be , will be. Your becoming a man only a fool would leave so that makes W a ????

Take care mate. Rd