Recent Hurricane 2

[NateG79]

I agree Sandi. One thing I have prided myself on through this whole thing, I never really lost the identity of who I am in all this. My relationship never defined me. I've achieved many things in my 36 years. Things that most people couldn't dream of, and it's made me who I am. If I ever doubt that, I just look back on all that I have achieved in that time. Although I'm not where I was hoping to be at this point in my life, I'm still proud of my accomplishments.

So, to follow up on today. My WW calls me this morning, said she really misses D2, and wants to see her. We had a bad blizzard and the roads are bad. I told her my work was cancelled because of the blizzard so I was home today. She asked if it would be alright if she could come over. She told me she'd been up since 7:15 but hadn't gotten out of bed yet (it was 1:15pm). Also texted me that she really needed to see me and D2, which I thought was odd. She came over, played with D2. She brought me treats that her grandmother had made like a cheese log, pecan sandies and bananabread. We ate, chatted a little. We didn't talk at all about R. She then thanked me for letting her come over, and went home before the weather got worse.

Also, another interesting development. The OM called me last night. Told me he was very troubled about what had transpired. It was weighing heavily on him. This guy is a devout catholic, and my wife is a non-christian. I asked him, why are you harming your family like this. He didn't know what to do. He sounded very immature for 35. I told him he needed to grow a f&*%$ pair, and drop my wife like a bad habit and focus on his own family (which he stated he loved his perfect family). Pffffft, whatever dude. I know that my WW spearheaded all of this. This guy is too much of a pushover to mastermind anything. This was my W aggressively pursuing. He asked if I could take back my wife. I stated what I do between me and my wife is my business and not his, and he needs to refocus on his "perfect" family. I told him, since his wife doesn't know, he should probably talk to his Deacon at church, or a parent that he trusts, and grow a pair, and stop f*&%$ing up other peoples families. He said he was grateful to talk to me, and then hung up. Wondering if the fantasy world is starting to collapse.