I would continue to think it through. However, don't formulate any expectations based off this one conversation. You never know what the real motivation is/was. A moment of weakness, possible lonely, etc.
Just be careful.
Thanks Mahhhty, I have no expectations. I'm still getting D'ed as far as I know. My WAW talked a lot about the big decision we have to make is whether we want to be friends or not, and that's fine. I'm at peace with my situation. Whenever I start to have conversations with my in my head negating what she said that I don't believe is true, I can stop myself and say, "It doesn't really matter why she's gone, she's gone." And that helps.
It stops the gears from grinding all day trying to find the perfect sentence that would get her to believe that things weren't as bad as she thought they were and that if we both put our best efforts out that we could be an amazing couple. We did put our best efforts out years ago and we were an amazing couple, but with some hugely broken pieces. Now those pieces are put back together and that's a grace.
Cheers,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17