PP, thanks for sharing your day with us. I would agree with Fogg that the path you are on is the right one. Remember that DBing isn't necessarily getting your M back, but getting yourself back. You learned some things in your conversation and you made sure to stay present, acknowledge her feelings, and yet stay honest to yourself. Keep on the path of finding the best PP out there. You are doing great, as I'm sure Woofie would tell you!
***hugs***
E
Thank you very much E, it was a great reminder to read "DB'ing is about getting ourselves back." I hear you on that completely. I am back and better than I've ever been in my life and in the deepest part of my stomach believe that if I lose my W forever but am still where I am now, it was worth it. I could not have gone on living the way I was in my M and she and I couldn't figure out a way to get ourselves there together. As I said, it's tragic but then again, so is life.
Appreciate the hug.
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
